TributesGuidance24 October 2026· 1 min read
How to write a eulogy that sounds like them
Five simple steps to a tribute that is honest, warm and the right length, even if you have never spoken in public.
Being asked to give the eulogy is an honour, and it can feel daunting. A good eulogy does not need to be long or perfect. It needs to sound like the person you are remembering.
Start with stories
Write down three or four moments that show who they were: a habit, a saying, a kindness. Stories stay with people far longer than lists of achievements.
Keep it to five minutes
About 600 to 800 words is enough. Read it aloud once to check the timing.
Ask others
Call a sibling, a colleague or an old friend and ask for one memory. You will often hear something new.
End with a thank you
Thank them, and thank everyone who cared for them. It is a gentle way to close.
- Print it in a large font
- Pause and breathe; people will wait for you
- Ask someone to stand beside you if you need support
Written by Angel Funeral Home
